Believe me, I love Chinese martial arts. It's not out of hate for it that I say that, it's out of some despair and great sadness. Every lie kills it off a little more.
I can see that you have a love/hate thing going on with gongfu bro. Fortunately.. I've been where you're at.
So I can both empathize and help you resolve this issue you have.
First off.. I'd like to urge you to set aside this nagging urge you may be feeling to assume I'm just
another lying idiot in silk pajamas trying to convince you that "gongfu is t3h deadly". I'm not.
What I am is an CMA/FMA instructor with a school that is partnered with one of the finest fighting MMA gyms
in my state. I train combat sports 3-5 times per week. And I am also, to the core, a gongfu man.
So I understand both sides, and I've got some ways to clarify that may help you resolve your
longing for "CMA that work", and the very valid perception that they just don't seem to, based on the
standards of easily available evident proof.
I'm doing this because
1.) I empathize .. i've been where you are at
2.) The anger you display is not good for you. I also empathize with anger. BTDT

3.) I've seen you do shili (youtube).. and there is serious potential there, given your evident mental gifts...
4.) I am an Admin here.. and our EF mission is to raise the level and awareness of CMA on this planet.
Part of that is sometimes doing a gentle intervention and pointing out some alternate points of view
to a promising newcomer who has been .. er.. less that harmonious.. shall we say

Now also.. for me to do this.. you have to try.. VERY HARD.. to listen with open ears and not snap
back into "free-fall arguement mode" OK?
Now.. lets get started with some analysis shall we?
"Don't take my word for it; after all, I'm the guy sitting here in my study wearing a black balaclava and sunglasses after sunset." - this guy on youtube -
"“The only idea ... ever manifested as to what is a government of consent, is this – that it is one to which everybody must consent, or be shot!" - Lysander Spooner